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Perception; a cause to difference

 Perception has been a lot more than what we have always thought of it as. It is not just any concept but it is a road to the journey called “LIFE”. It is a process to unfold “self knowledge”. It is an ability to see things differently. Using outside as stimuli for your perception but the reality always comes from your inner self knowledge. Therefore, it is your inner self who perceive the outside in a certain ways. Broadly talking, perception is not what our eyes, ears and other sensory experiences tells us; it is what our brain makes us see and hear and feel. Meaning how an individual’s own experiences, intensity of senses, cognition capabilities, childhood learnings truly affect the way one perceives the outside rationally making a huge difference in an individual’s life. Let me Just try to explain how our mental health is actually being highly flown by our own perception and, how the perception can play a devil or an angel to our thoughts, feelings and behaviour. It is because perc

Myths about Career Counselling

Myths about Career  C ounselling W ell, just if in case you think that it is a fancy trend to go for a career  counselling , and that of it is al l the same as a coaching centre. Let' debunk many of the doubts and give a clearer view of what exactly career  counselling  entails. Myth  : To think career  counselling  as it is all about placements in the top colleges and that the  counsellor's  job is to ensure that the students are placed in their (or their   parent's) desired colleges. Truth  : Career  counselling  is all about making students understand what they want to do, and what they can do and to bridge the gap between these two aspects. Myth  : It is much more beneficial and fruitful for high achieving students as they stand higher chance for getting in high ranking universities. Truth  : High achieving students will manage their way to such universities. Career  counselling  is mainly for two tier and three tier students, who can actually br

Quarreling during quarantine

Oh wait! Thank god right now i am in ‘no regret zone’ for not making up a resolution list at the start of this year, seems like the planet earth has made its own resolutions this 2020. After listening to the endless news channels, facebook videos, internet information, whtsapp videos and also the local radio channels it is loud and clear to us all, its only quarantine which can prevent us all from the virus COVID-19. Well, everyone must be excited to live with the loved ones and the family which everyone complains about due to the lifestyle and fast life we humans are in. Now realising the quarantined to be for weeks it might create distress in any relationship; romatic, familial, or friendly. Spending umpteen time with the family and partners being all lockdown at home may increase the drama amongst each other. It is natural that your partner requires different levels of autonomy & closeness, alone time, sleep time; putting all these things together you have a perfect recipe

Baby blues

She is very happy still feels unhappy. She is glorified still feels dissatisfied . She is relieved still feels gloom. She is diligent still feels bogus. She is circumambient still feels gone. She is eager still feels dull. She is pep still feels less. She is passionate still feels lethargic. She is an albatross still feels exempted. She is the lead still feels weak. She is receptive to the phase still feels the hold. She is aware of everything still feels lost. She is offering still feels insufficient. She is immensely hit still feels insecure . She knows she should not put herself in destined addiction still she does. Yes, a female when is called by as “THE MOTHER”, it’s not only her body that is changed.  Motherhood is the best thing that can happen to a woman, but it comes with hundreds    of unseen challenges, that is hard to put in words. The years she has put in to grow her babies are the crucial years she has taken out of her own life making her to start it from scratch.

ADOLESCENT LYING

It's almost certain that your teen has lied or will lie to you about something at some point during their teenage years. A prerequisite for learning anything of value from this article is first admitting that to yourself. It is not without irony that the first point we offer about teens lying is that you should not lie to yourself about it because TEENS DO LIE. Parents usually remain calm during the years when lies take the form of fantastical stories and denials of cookie jar raids. However when it is an older child who is lying, most parents' alarm bells begin clanging, despite lying being part and parcel of child development. Like adults, teens aspire to be better than they are, something that provides them with ample reasons to hide the truth. Lies are statements intended to create a false belief or impression. They are attempts to get someone to believe something that is not true and are typically motivated by a desire to get others to do something or make a

The Importance of Psychology in Today’s World

Psychology is the scientific study of human behavior and mental processes. It’s existed since the ancient civilizations of Egypt and Greece, mostly as a branch of philosophy, but broke out as an independent branch of scientific study in the 1870s. The effects of psychological studies are more relevant and respected than any period in the past, and new discoveries and applications for psychology are always being uncovered by top researchers. For example, consider the initial reaction to World War I veterans by the psychological and medical professionals of the early 20 th  Century. An initial theory written by physician Charles Myers in 1915 posited soldiers were experiencing “shell shock” due to exposure to repeated concussive blasts, resulting in brain damage. When this theory was disproven, the prevailing wisdom at the time was the people suffering from “shell shock” were simply weak or cowardly, despite the fact that some estimates suggest nearly 20 percent of surviving WWI vete